
As I was chatting with a new friend the other day, she
asked me what I did for a living. When I told her I
helped others get organized, she said, 'Oh, I don't have
time for that planning stuff...it's just not fun. I'm a
spontaneous person.' She then spent the remainder of the
conversation telling me how she can't get anything done,
that her house looks like a tornado went through it and
that she's always exhausted from running around to and
fro.
In her mind, she feels that planning is not fun. So, she
doesn't plan. In the meantime, she chronically complains
at the problems that could be resolved--if only for a
little bit of planning.
Did you know that planning can actually help to make
your life more fun and enjoyable? I can't imagine I'd
have as much 'play time' as I do, without planning out
my schedule.
When I plan my schedule for the week, I actually schedule
in time for fun. No, I don't plan exactly what fun thing
I'm going to be doing every single time. However, when I
land on a 'play time hour' on my schedule, I can pick and
choose whether I lounge in the backyard reading a book,
go to the park and run around with my daughter or work on
my latest scrapbook or sewing project.
By planning my cleaning and organizing schedule ahead of
time, I spend no time doing things I don't like to do,
such as searching for a lost bill, duplicating work or
picking up laundry strewn about.
When I plan, I'm also anticipating possible problems.
For instance, instead of expecting my daughter to not
follow her chore schedule, I think ahead and reward her
even better for remembering to follow her chore schedule
on her own. This works out to my benefit, as most of
the time, she does her chores without being asked. And
I'm not always caught up in a struggle to get her to do
it.
When my husband and I plan vacations, we make dinner
reservations ahead of time, so we're not wasting time
standing in line. We check restaurants, event locations,
hotels, etc. before we go, so we're not there at the
busiest time, when something is closing or caught without
something we might need at that particular place. This
ensures less sidetrips to Walgreens for forgotten
toiletries and less 'I don't like anything on the menu'
proclamations because we didn't bother to spend a few
minutes checking out a restaurant's web site.
Planning allows for spontaneity. Even though I have a
schedule that I abide by 95% of the time, I do allow for
flexibility. I may not do a project or two at the time I
originally scheduled if something comes up unexpectedly.
Of course, I then re-schedule that project--and I can
easily do so because I planned ahead to ensure my
schedule wasn't jam-packed and that there was time for
this sort of flexibility in the first place.
It's because of planning, that I've been able to reach my
goals. It's because of planning, that I'm able to strive
for new goals that I know I will accomplish. For me,
planning is a way of life--and I wouldn't want it any
other way. For me, planning IS fun.
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