I wish you could have seen our daughter Amanda's eyes when she first noticed the big box with the photo of the shiny tricycle. She was so excited, and even more so when her daddy put it together for her.
She boarded immediately and rang her little bell with glee!
Each day, Joe and I showed her how to get her legs moving so that she could get the bike to move forward. We held her feet on the peddles and pushed them around and around with our hands. We moved the bike forward and helped Amanda steer with the extension bar. And of course, we spent a lot of time coaching her and trying to keep her motivated.
"Keep pedalling! Keep pedalling! You're doing great!" These words must have come out of our mouths a hundred times or more.
A few days later, she saw some of the neighborhood kids riding their bikes. We could tell she was even more enticed to do it herself without our help.
Without fail, every day since we've purchased the bike, she's been on it. Even on rainy days, she's practiced in the garage.
It was two weeks ago when we purchased the bike from Target.
What a delight it was for us to walk behind her just two days ago as she peddled herself all the way around the block-- without any assistance at all!
The same goes when you're trying to learn just about anything. You need someone to teach you how to do it (whether it's someone in person, or a book, course, etc.), and you need to practice it over and over to excel at it. This applies whether you're trying to master a new language, play a new sport, or organize your kitchen.
Most things worth doing well don't just come naturally. You have to work at them, and continuously improve along your journey.
You also have to be motivated. In the case of the tricycle, my daughter was self-motivated. In the case of putting her toys away, it usually involves rewards (bribes) or consequences--both equally motivating in many cases.
Perhaps if you wanted to learn how to sew, you'd tell yourself that after each hour of practice, you'd earn yourself a reward--such as 15 minutes of talking on the phone to your friend or a half hour of simply relaxing in your yard.
Or, you can give yourself a consequence such as if you don't spend the time cleaning your garage, you won't watch television that night.
One thing is for sure though. If you're determined to do what it takes to reach your goal or complete your project, you can succeed with knowledge, patience and practice.
And someone behind you (such as a spouse or a friend) telling you how great you are doesn't hurt either!
